As we start the new year, start with doing away with pretense as it brings misery into your own life and slows you down. Add people who deserve you in your life, subtract those who bring you down including family or friends, divide the miserable ones because they will burden you and multiply those who support you and are brutally honest with you so you can do your best. Always bear in mind that you can never control how people think or feel about you and it doesn’t matter. This is your road to walk so choose wisely who deserves to be beside you. At this stage, I believe you tried hard now it’s time to forget feelings and emotions and show attitude.