PEER PRESSURE : When growing up I used to believe peer pressure is only for young children or teens but apparently women suffer from it as well like some chronic disease. In women, it is basically encouraged by jealousy rather than inspiration. We get into debts because those we went to school with can afford finer things. Our friends have the brand name bags, sunglasses, clothes, and accessories . Unnecessary debt that is caused by peer pressure. Debt that makes others want to commit suicide. Are you guilty of this crime?
SERIAL SHOPPING : This is like masturbating with your own money. We have clothes that occupy our space without even touching some of them. It is actually very sad because it is all a waste of money we don’t have. Every occasion that comes up has to be shopped for including funerals and kiddies parties while leaving the ones bought 2 years ago in the closet. Generally, women are bad in saving their money and impulsive shopping is their number one enemy that takes it all. We work hard for our money just to flush it down the toilet. Guilty?
IMPULSIVE EATING : That craving that cannot be ignored that leads to impulsive shopping as well. Cravings often lead to food that is not good for our body and or health. Women are more vulnerable to sickness maybe because we give in, into bad eating habits. You know that chocolate will give you more weight or even bad skin reaction but you have it anyway. It becomes worse when we get pregnant then we blame it on the pregnancy, but truth is some of that fat is the result of laziness plus those awkward cravings that we allow to overrule us. I am personally guilty of impulsive eating, are you?
PUTTING UP AN ACT : Pretending to be what we are not, brings about lack of trust. By pretending, you are already not being honest to the next person and to yourself as well. The pretense is as good as lying because it can break up relationships. No one wants to hang around a potential backstabber as a friend. What happens when we are tired of pretending? We run the risk of losing that potential life partner once they find you are not who we appear to be. I have a reason to believe those who pretend are unhappy and have a very difficult life. Playing a character all the time? Even actresses are much better as they have to snap out of it daily after a shoot. This is just being present not living and it is a serious offense against your life. Are you guilty or not?
UNNECESSARY ENDURANCE : Accepting and tolerating so much bullshit from our partners in the name of love. Patience with family or friends that put you down all the time is uncalled for. Endurance brings about the lack of respect, makes you not worthy and ultimately making you believing you are actually not. It leads to loveless commitments, boring friendships, and boring life. Not just boring but painful and emotionally draining. This is like taking our own happiness and shoving it down our throat.
JEALOUSY : Jealousy makes you nasty. We are all familiar with that phrase. It is actually the worst crime a woman can commit against herself as it houses almost if not all the crimes we commit. A jealous woman is like a time ticking bomb that will explode at some point causing death to her and injury to others. Jealousy makes us endure because we are getting something that we can at least show-off or we get maintenance of lifestyle which is nothing but pain behind closed doors. Jealousy makes us bitter, a bitter soul is a bitter life. Pretending comes in because we are so jealous we need to look better. More unaffordable shopping becomes part of life because we want to show we are also capable.
Crimes Women Commit Against Themselves, Most of these offenses are not worth it if we look deeper into them; they are bad habits that can be crushed. They can be damaging and makes us detour from our daily challenges. We can be in a better place and archive more if we move away. We are guilty of one or more but if it brings negative results abandon that masturbation because it’s just an illusion of the real thing.